"...we all have limits. No one is infinite. We all need to sleep, to eat, to exercise, and to rest. The extent to which we need to do these things varies tremendously. Yet we all hit our personal limits at some point."
Even a quick review of "The Overload Syndrome" and you realize that Dr. Swenson has a handle on this subject. He identifies contemporary overloads that tend to push us toward stress and depression--if we don't choose to change the way we live. In this very practical book, Dr. Swenson not only gives us insights into the overloads that plague us, he gives specific actions we can take to reduce or eliminate the stress caused by them.
Here are a couple of examples:
- Activity & Commitment (the busyness syndrome)--Reestablish control of your life and schedule; prioritize activities and commitments; practice saying no to good things; consider doing less, not more; protect your open spaces; periodically prune activities.
- Change & Stress (too much change too fast syndrome)--Slow the rate of change; move less often; don't overvalue newness; put more control in your life; develop a network of caring friends; spread goodwill; learn to laugh.
- Choice & Decision (too many choices and decisions syndrome)--Simplify your decision making; simplify meal choices; develop enjoyable routines; make decisions and stick with them; value traditions; be wary of advertisements; ignore marketing gimmicks.
Dr. Swenson pretty much pegs our world today and how it tends to overload us. His suggestions for countering the effects sound simplistic. But how many of us are doing positive things to combat the stress in our lives?
My suggestion (my goal) is to select a handful of changes that will reduce stress where you need stress reduced and try them on. (Afterall, if you tackle too many at once, won't it cause stress?)
Lest you think I have a handle on this in my own life, this series is my way to refresh on the subject. I tend to cycle in this arena of life. Just about the time I get on top of things, it seems life throws me a couple of curves and I'm back in the overload mode.
Keep working on it. It's one of those lifelong challenges. But an important one to stay on top of. Next week, the lies we tend to tell ourselves when we hit rock bottom.