Looking Out for Number One is a well-known book from the seventies. I wondered at the time, "Is there a problem with people not being selfish enough?"
You see, the seventies were known as "The Me Decade." Apparently as part of the response to a very unpopular war (Vietnam) and the mental anguish it caused the country, many in the younger generation turned their attentions to "making ME happy." Boy, what we lost.
Several incredibly destructive trends were set in motion during the sixties and seventies as a result of this "me focus." And they are still harming this culture even today:
- Recreational Drugs - I listened to a "Best of the 70's" album recently and was reminded of how the popular music of the time carried such a heavy theme of drugs. The Beatles were among those who contributed to popularizing drug use and making it acceptable among young people with such hits as "Strawberry Fields Forever" and "Let It Be."
- Free Sex - "If it feels good, do it" was the mantra of the day. Forget the consequences, just enjoy the sex. (Another popular song of the day was "Love the One You're With.") Within that decade, unwanted teen pregnancies began to skyrocket, venereal diseases became national epidemics, pornography began to achieve mainstream status, and abortions became part of the cultural landscape.
- Easy Divorce - Changes in the laws made it easier to divorce. That--combined with the free sex , "I want to be happy" attitude of the times--started doing significant damage to the institution of marriage and to the kids hurt by the process. Today, only about half of marriages survive.
- Secularization of the Culture - You can imagine how each of these other trends flew in the face of most mainstream religions. The younger generation simply threw church overboard in favor of pursuing fun.
Thirty years on the other side of those trends, we can see the HUGE penalty extracted from the individuals that were caught up in the madness and the culture that was greatly diminished by it.
All of that said to emphasize the primary point of this week's message: When a person focuses on self, he misses the bigger, long-term picture. It's true of individuals; but it's also true of societies.
In today's culture, there is a dearth of individuals who have the ability to recognize harmful trends, articulate the damage that's being done, and then courageous enough to speak out against the interests who propagate the trend.
Each of us has an opportunity to perform that service for those in our spheres of influence. Live soberly, love those around you selflessly, and serve compassionately. And keep your eyes wide open.